In our age of ever-increasing responsibilities and expectations, focusing on one task and seeing it through to completion can be a challenge. In this Lenten season that cultivates simplicity, we also have an opportunity to gain some focus that can bring deeper satisfaction to our souls — by making wise choices about where we spend our time and energy.
When I reflect on my life’s tendency toward overwork, I return to the familiar story of Mary and Martha in Luke 10:38-42. Martha was busy preparing the meal while Mary sat with the Lord, listening to his teachings. When Martha complains that Mary is not helping, Jesus responds: “Martha, Martha…you are worried and upset about many things, but few things are needed — or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” (Luke 10:41-42)
Here, Jesus is pointing out the significance of a relationship with him — his teachings and his presence. More broadly, he points to our tendency to spread ourselves so thin that we find little joy or satisfaction in anything we do. With the demands of work and life pulling us in all directions, it is easy to find ourselves overcommitted and overwhelmed. When we can no longer keep up with the demands we’ve taken on, we can easily become exhausted and lose our motivation.
The COVID experience was a time for many to take a deep look at the unsatisfying ways our lives were being parceled out in the world. Many who are returning to church are doing so with a more selective and careful attitude. More than ever before, we come to church with high expectations. It’s not about seeking a good thing — it’s about locating that better thing.
My encouragement to you is to find a few places to dig deeply, commit wholeheartedly, and experience the fullness of joy in the love of God and neighbor found there. Whether it is by involving yourself in Sunday worship through music or choir, leading and learning in a discipleship group, volunteering on mission in our community, or offering your leadership elsewhere in church life — you will be shaped by the joy of having good work to do with and for Jesus.
As we make our way toward Easter and all the promises of resurrection, I pray that God will continue to meet us in these gracious ways. The church is a place to discover the deep truth of that better thing Jesus tells Martha to seek — the thing that cannot be taken away. It is the gift of his own presence, companionship, and love. May it be so for you!
Grace and Peace,